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10 Ways To Overcome Your Fears And Anxiety In Your Life


Mubariz Mehdizadeh

Should I change my job? Who will be the new boss? How will I cope with the new environment?

What will I do in the future? The job opportunities are decreasing day by day and the cost of living is increasing. Will I be able to fulfil my aspirations? How will I cope up with future?

Thinking about a few things can make you fearful.

Why does the fear arise?

Sipping up a cup of tea you realise “ What is this bull shit I am thinking?”

You get fearful and anxious about the future.

There are so many thoughts in the mind that the thought pattern would look like this

You think that you are controlling your life through your decisions and for decisions you need thoughts. But are all thoughts equal and valuable?

“If You can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James

If you write your thoughts for 2 hours on a paper. You will see that there are many useless thoughts.  

You are Either in past and trying to correct it or in future painting a rosy picture of it.

You think about jobs disappearing, technology changing rapidly, education expenses increasing and the cost of living increasing rapidly but your present state is constant.

This brings worry, uncertainty, Survival thoughts and many other useless thoughts.

Your past has a bigger part of life and there and many things that you want to change in that so it occupies a bigger part of your thoughts.

You desired state of future is rosy but looking at the at present state it seems tough and you keep on thinking. This creates fear and anxiety.

Most of the time you might be thinking why can’t my brain stop. Have you ever thought that?

How to overcome the fear arising out of thoughts?

  1. Stay grounded.
  2. Look at facts
  3. Listen to other people perspectives.
  4. Learn, Do and make mistakes. Life is not as straightforward as you think.
  5. Work on your useful thoughts
  6. Take breaks – Release your mind
  7. Be Yourself – Conquer Yourself rather than the world
  8. Make some rules in your life – Rules define and system
  9. Ask yourself what can you do to solve the problem not why should you do
  10. Be Unconventional

 

1. Stay Grounded

Many times in life you have the aspirations to touch the sky. There is nothing wrong in that but at least have your feet on the ground.

When you have your feet on the ground it is easy to think practical and worthwhile. It helps to eradicate a lot of wishful thinking automatically.

 

2. Look at the Facts

Most of the times in life we have assumptions rather than facts.

You may think that your boss wants to kick you out of the company. Reality could be, he is interested in giving you higher responsibility so that you can grow in the career.

Your friend just came to you said “You look good and your thoughts are awesome” and suddenly he asks for help. You may assume he wants to make use of you and so you try to leave the ground. The reality of the matter is – your friend wants to give you a treat because your words just helped him somewhere.

Your assumption killed the coming moment.

 

3. Listen to other people perspectives

When you are open you see the life from different angles. Do not just have “my way or highway” approach in mind.

Have mindful and meaningful discussions with people. Never know someone’s perspective may give you a new way to look at a particular matter or problem.

 

4. Learn, Do and Make Mistakes

Life is never as straight as you think. It is not a defined mathematics that A leads to B and B lead to C. It is topsy-turvy. You may face a wall after B and you feel the game is over.

Suppose you join a college and a day before decided to take a Paying Guest Outside and had total planning for it even a month ago. Suddenly on the day of shifting the PG owner denies you the occupancy for some reasons. What will you do?

You can crib and cry and say all negative things to yourself. Or you can move ahead accepting life is never straight. Just learn, do and make mistakes.

 

5.  Work on your Useful Thoughts

Socrates in 15th Century Said “ I know one thing. That I know nothing.”

Descartes in the 7th Century said “Cogito Ergo Sum” “ I think therefore I am”

Thoughts are of two types:

  1. Useless
  2. Useful

This is nothing that you can do with useless thoughts. You simply need to ignore. That is why it is said, “Overthinking Kills”.

The only thoughts you can control is your useful thoughts. These thoughts can help you to solve a problem.

 

6. Take breaks and release your mind

At a time after so much pressure and worry when fear captures you just take a break.

The moment you take a break, your mind is no more thinking about what will happen.

That’s where you will regain some strength.

 

7. Be Yourself

Most of the worries in life are due to fear of failure or fear of performance.

You want to prove something in front of others. You know your limits better.

You do not have to conquer the world. Just conquer your mind and be yourself. You are the best creation of the universe.

Work on your strengths and weaknesses and love yourself

 

8. Make some Rules in your Life

You might have hated rules in your life. In school and college, you loved to break rules.

Few rules can create a system in your life.

If you are worried about money – Create some money rules.


If you are worried about your health – create some health rules like – 

     1. I need to exercise 30 minutes a day.

2. I have to take that many calories that I can burn.

3. I will avoid fast food and snacks that have trans fats.

Rules will create a system and keep you in check. No more you will be worried about what you should eat and what you should not.

 

9. Ask Yourself what can you do to solve a problem

Whenever you are fearful about the future or facing a problem that is giving you a worry just ask what can you do to solve the problem?

Most of the times when you hit a wall – You say “Why”

Can you just shift the psychology to “How”?

The moment you move to how – You are working on the useful thoughts.

 

10. Be Unconventional

Traditional methods will give traditional results. Try thinking out of the box.

One problem can be solved with many solutions. Try looking at other possible options.

CONCLUSION:

To remove your fears work on your useful thoughts and ignore your useless thoughts.

Sometimes solutions may come from other people.

Learn, do and make mistakes. Life does not always go straight.

When stressed out take breaks and release your mind with useless thoughts.

Be yourself and make some rules in your life.

By the way folks, a while ago I read a great book on “Thinking Straight” that may help you give more practical wisdom. This book has helped me to overcome unnecessary fears and worries.  

You can find it on Amazon here https://amzn.to/2L0GcvO

If this article has helped you to overcome some worries comment and share your views.

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10 Secrets To The Science Of Getting Rich

Are you looking for getting rich in life? Or are you rich, but somewhere there is a lack always in the mind and reality? We as human beings need many things to buy be it your clothes, house, a luxury or even a daily need. There is the science of getting rich. 

Starting your day in the morning from a toothbrush, toothpaste to a bed to lie down in the night, you need money to buy things.

Is it bad to be on the lookout for money? Is it bad to be rich? Whatever is your current financial state? Do Nature / Supreme Lord or life wants you to live that way? Is this your destiny?

Or even if you have a lot of money somewhere you make a lot of bad decisions and ruin your money. Are these the questions in your mind?

If these are the questions in your mind there is an exact science of getting rich. There is a method of mathematics multiplication, subtraction, and addition.

If you do the things in a certain way you are bound to get rich or at least will set your path right in the process of getting rich.

In the Hindu Mythology, there is thought “One is all and all is one.” We are the part of supreme consciousness and that supreme consciousness is permeated in us. Sum total of ours is that supreme and the division of that supreme is us. Based on this thought, experience from personal life, excerpts, and guidance from the Book “The Science of getting rich” by Wallace D Wattles lets unveil the process.

To understand the process first understand and assume the statement “One is all and all is one.”

The objective of life is development. Every person can become, should become what he wants to become. The objective of life is development.

If You see any seed, any creature or anything on this earth, you will observe development. Going back to the same premise as we are the fragmented part of that “supreme one”, our development is essential for the development and fulfillment of supreme.

It is through us only that “supreme one” is able to fulfill its objectives of fulfillment. Thus the desire for abundance and rich life is the desire of that supreme.

 

Here are the 10 Secret Steps to get Rich and abundant in life

 

1. FULFILL OBJECTIVES OF MIND, BODY, AND SOUL

We have the body to fulfill deeds and actions. The Life finds fulfillment by feeding not just one but all three. the body is fed through food, clothing and other requirements.

The mind needs intellectual adventure through books, thoughts, and discussions.

The soul needs love for its fulfillment. A soul is part of some non-local intelligence that is the seat of emotions. You can offer love through giving only and not by taking.

Life finds fulfillment through you by feeding the trio. To feed the mind, body, and soul requires money because basic of the three is a body.

So money is one of the ingredients for the life to fulfill its own purpose through you.

 

2. THOUGHT IS THE ONLY POWER THAT CAN

PRODUCE SUBSTANCE

The thought is the only power that can produce substance. We are living in a thought Universe. A thought in a substance is creating a thought to be something else.

Assuming the same premise, there is one original stuff from which all stuff is formed. A thought of the house in your mind will not create a house right away for you. A thought of House in your mind will put your resources into action. That, in turn, will create thoughts in this universe to provide you the ways and means to create a house.

The mastery here is to live with the thought of richness in poverty and thought of health in disease.

When you are able to create and live the desired thoughts you have gained the mastery of Thoughts.

We can create what we want to create because abundance, richness, and development is the law of Universe.

 

3. LIFE MULTIPLIES ITSELF BY LIVING

The urge of life is to do more and add more. Living the life of abundance and fulfillment is living the law of life. Life finds fulfillment and expression through abundance, growth and your development.

You are not looking to be rich to be stupendous. Your desire to get rich is not only to help others. To get rich is to live, eat and merry only.

You are getting rich to make your life fulfilled. You have to make the most of yourself and help others.

To make the most of yourself and the supreme wants you to be rich. The “Supreme One” finds its advancement and development through you.

 

4. BE A CREATOR NOT A COMPETITOR

Many people live with competitive thought because we are subconsciously trained to live competitively. Since childhood, you trained to get 1st rank in the class because once that is occupied you cannot get that.

Do not think that all opportunities and supplies are limited. There is abundance always in nature. There is enough to feed everyone’s requirements. It is not the case that if you do not take a piece of land you will be deprived of the land. The land will be given to you may be another one.

Never think that if other person occupies something you will be deprived of that. Do not look at the present supply of anything. There is always abundant and too much to feed all your needs.

If you are looking for a position to occupy it will be given to you. Do not look for snatching from others. Pay more than you take from others.

Look for paying more cash value to others for the service you take. You need to convey your idea to the “supreme one”.

If you are an employee try to deliver more than you are being paid. If you are an employer try to pay more than you receive. The received value should always be less than the paid value.

 

5. ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE

Gratitude i.e is being grateful will bring you in harmony with nature. You will move from competitive to creative thought.

The direct relation can be understood from the point that if you focus on disadvantage and lack you are actually focusing on the competitive attitude. Ask from the supreme one that permeates in all substance.

The more you get and the more you are grateful for, the more will be given to you. The ideology here is not ingratitude only when you receive something.

You should always be in gratitude mode if you want more and more showers of what you desire for. You need to believe that there is one intelligent substance from which all substances originate.

 

6. AN ACTION IS ALWAYS EQUAL TO REACTION

Like the rule of science, an action has an equal and opposite reaction. When you are grateful for anything there is an action on your end and so do the reaction.

You get all things that you again become grateful for. When you are in the complaining mode, disappointment, lack, and fear mode your action is negative. So what you generate is the vicious circle of lack, fear, complaints, and disappointment.

Fix your attention on the best and you will generate and become the best. We are thinking substance and in order to receive the best, you should have gratitude with faith. So, do ask and receive.

Gratitude permeates all. Whatever you focus on increases. If you focus on the best, you get the best and become the best.

 

7. CLEARLY, DEFINE AND SEE THE PICTURE

 

There has to be clear thinking of what you want to do. The clear and definite picture is the key to ask. See those things as if you already own them.

If you want success and to be rich. Define the amount of money, see the mental picture of what you would be doing assuming you have achieved that amount now. Meditate upon those thoughts.

For example- if you are a trainer, see that you are training thousands and thousands of people. You are moving to the corridors of an airport lounge. You have the back to back flights and then you are enjoying the time relaxing in a beautiful hotel. Money is coming to you naturally and with ease.

Dwell on your mental picture and see that you already own it. Do not have a wavering mind that this is not real. Imagine the proper desired financial environment all the time.

 

8. APPLY THE PROCESS TO SELF ONLY

When you are looking for changing your financial blueprint use the methods on self only. If you want to bear the fruits of your thoughts apply your thoughts on self only.

You cannot apply your thoughts to change the sunrise. You cannot use your thoughts to change the laws of nature. If physical slavery is a slavery so do is mental.

The moment you try to create hurt or lack for another person mentally you go against the law of the universe. You enter into the process of competitive mind.

You have to move away from being competitive to creator mind. If you think that giving money to poor people will solve poverty. You are wrong because you are focusing on poverty only.

They need your inspiration and support to move ahead in life. They need your upliftment. You have to teach someone to catch fish not just giving a fish to eat.

 

9. ACT NOW TO RECEIVE

Going back to again “supreme one” and his work, you can complete its work by action. Man in this world requires action for the fulfillment of life.

You cannot work in past and you cannot work in future. You can work in the present only. Do not look for the right perfect moment.

If you are in a business and feel that, it is wrong business do not hold just the mental image of the right business. Act in the present business each day and each hour and each minute.All your right actions will take you to the right business.

If you are an employee and looking for a right job, hold on to the vision but keep acting on each element of your present job. You present successful efforts will take you to the future right job.

Your action and faith should go hand I hand. Work during the work hours and produce the mental image during the leisure hours is the secret to getting rich.

 

10. LAW OF ADVANCEMENT AND PERPETUAL

INCREASE

Universe has a law of perpetual increase and continuous advancement. If you want advancement in your life, activate the thoughts of advancement and increase in each transaction you do. Be it a very small transaction give the thought of inspiration and increase.

Feel that you are getting rich and help others. Associate yourself with the increase and wish richness and advancement for every person.

Each person should feel inspired, advanced and good with you. One should feel that there is an advancement and inspiration after meeting you.

A doctor is successful when he cures a patient and wish good health for him. With faith, he can cure the curable diseases. A teacher advances in life and reaches fulfillment when he inspires and advances his students.

 

CONCLUSION

The science of getting rich is a science-based on certain facts and laws. There are certain assumptions because we do not see the working process.

Like we know there is electricity but we cannot see electricity. Process and the science start with a mental thought of richness and abundance. If you want to receive the actions of your thoughts go with the creative mind and not the competitive mind.

Once you receive something or whatever you have, be grateful for that. Gratitude will bring you more and make you connected with nature and its law. For every thought, there has to be action.

Act now to receive now and complete it transaction with inspiration, advancement, and increase.

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6 Definitions As Defined By Successful People – What Is Success?

Ever Wondered what is “success”? We hear this term “Success” and want this to happen in our lives. Many of us aspire to it and some have it.

Time and again we think what exactly is this? Is this something to be defined in monetary terms? Is this to be defined in non-monetary terms?

When you see someone with a lot of wealth, a good house, a beautiful car and enjoying a lot of parties, you say him successful.

Many times you yourself say to self- I want to be successful. Even though you might be earning good amount of money to save and expend, still you do not say to yourself that you are successful.

As a student, you dream of a luxurious house, a car and wealth as the success. Time and again your definition changes and you keep on thinking Is this success?

When you see a person with a lot of wealth but unable to give time to his family, you say he is successful in professional life but in personal life, he is unable to give time to kids. So what exactly is this success?

Somerset Maugham was the most celebrated author of all times. He had a lavish house with many servants working for him. He used to write for many hours in a day. His eyes in the later stages could not read the small letters of a book and he had read books with a bigger font only.

During the later stage of his life, his nephew asked him the secret to the success of being a highly paid author.

He said to him “You have everything in life and had been the most successful. How did you do that.”

Somerset Maugham said- there is a quote in the bible which says – “What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet lose your own soul.”

Let’s understand success from what it is not.

  1. It is not about working for money and money only.
  2. To think of everything in professional terms and personally, there is nothing.
  3. About having a lot of wealth but none to share that with you and nothing to contribute.
  4. Living in a beautiful house but no one to live with you.
  5. Sitting in a beautiful luxurious car but no one to sit with you.
  6. Having money to expend in a 7-star hotel but not having friends with you.
  7. Earning day in and day out but not having the good health with you.

 

Successful people have defined success as:

 

1. SUCCESS IS WELLBEING, WISDOM, WONDER, AND

    GIVING

The most successful website Huffington post’s co-founder Arianna Huffington says – To define success, money and power are not enough.

There is a third metric in addition to money and power. The third metric is four pillars – Wellbeing, Wisdom, Wonder, and giving.

2. SUCCESS IS A SMILE ON YOUR FACE IN MORNING

According to Billionaire investor Marc Cuban – You do not need money to be successful.

Being successful is all about having a smile on the face in the morning and say “it will be a great day.”

He believes he was more successful when he was poor living with 6 guys in a three bedroom apartment and sleeping on the floor. Thus, success is a smile on face with happiness.

 

3. SUCCESS IS SATISFACTION AND LOVE

Legendary basketball coach John wooden defines success as “Satisfaction”.  He focuses on competing with self, not with another person. In A Ted Talk in 2001, he said: “Peace of mind attained only through self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to do the best of which you’re capable.”

The legendary Investor Warren Buffet defines success in terms of relationship. The Chairman of Berkshire Hathway defines success as “I measure success by how many people love me.” According to him, it is all about love.

Acclaimed Author Maya Angelou who passed away at 86 in 2014, believed that success is about enjoying your work

She always focused on defining success as liking yourself, liking what you do and liking how you do it.

 

4. SUCCESS IS MAKING AN IMPACT ON THE SOCIETY

Microsoft co-founder Bill Gates defines success as making an impact on the society

With the net worth of more than $86 Billion, For him, it is not the money but the relationships and leaving a legacy behind. He always felt successful when he made a difference whether it was an invention or raising kids or even helping someone in need.

The former President of USA Barack Obama narrates success a the change in people’s lives. Even though he was the president he never advocated power with success.

In a democratic convention in 2012, His wife former First Lady Michelle Obama told about her husband that he started his career by turning down high paying jobs. Instead, he focused to help people in struggling neighborhoods. According to Barrack Obama Success is not about the money you make. It is the difference you make in people’s lives.

 

5. SUCCESS IS CONSTANT GROWTH

Spiritual teacher, Physician, and author Dr. Deepak Chopra define success as a matter of constant growth.

In his book “Seven spiritual laws of success”, he says “Success in life could be defined as the continued expansion of happiness and the progressive realization of worthy goals.”

 

6. SUCCESS IS DEEPLY PERSONAL

Popular author Stephen Covey defines success as deeply individual.

He is the author of best-seller “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People” that sold 25 million copies.

He always advocated that to define success-define and think what people will say about you in the funeral experience.

 

CONCLUSION:

Success is all about your personal satisfaction. It doesn’t matter how much money you have in your bank account.

What matters is how much happy you are with your life, work and relationships.

It is all about how much impact you are able to make in society.

One real indicator of success is happiness. If You are happy and satisfied with your work, self, and life you are the most successful person on this earth.

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10 Key Ingredients Of The Secret To Success

There are 2000 billionaires on the earth as of now. One such billionaire is Jeff Hoffman whose company priceline.com is valued at $60 Billion.

Learning from his life, interviews, and life of other successful people here are the few key points that unlock the secret to success:

 

1. PROBLEM SOLVING

Very early in life, successful people have understood that money can only be made through people.  To be successful in life, you must be a problem solver.

Let’s understand from a perspective of jobber and an Entrepreneur. Why would people give you the job? Or why would customers come to you and give you the business? It’s only and only if you solve somebody’s problem.

If you really want to be successful and rich in life be a problem solver. It will not only give you satisfaction and success but money will flow with that.

Say to yourself– I love problem-solving.

 

2. NEVER TO FOCUS ON MONEY

All successful people never focused on money. Ophray Winfrey said, “The reason I have been able to be so financially successful is my focus has never, even for one minute been money.”

Jeff Hoffman in his interviews always stated that never focus on money. He said to focus on problem-solving.

Focus all your energies on the aim higher than the money. If you focus on the money you focus on money only. You end not getting even that.

If you focus on something higher, something higher will be achieved. Obviously, money will be one of that. It is that process that follows.

3. CHASE EXCELLENCE

Success and richness come from excellence. All successful people focus on excellence. If you chase excellence in whatever you do, you become excellent.

Once you become excellent people run after you. You now have the Midas touch. Excellence is a value if you focus on that it grows higher and higher.

The more excellent you are the more successful and rich you are. According to Jeff Hoffman – if you worry about excellence people will show you the money.

 

4. WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING RIGHT – IN THE HINDSIGHT YOU LOOK SMART

The right thing at the right time is the synonym to success. According to Jeff, if you do something right – in the hindsight you look smart. Doing the right required lot of lessons learned in the past.

There had been many instances where you were not able to just take the right step. Now focusing on excellence, caring for your work and customer you will do the right thing.

Once you do the right thing people will always wonder how could you be so smart.

This is the secret to success.

 

5. DEFINE YOUR PERSONALITY

Be it a company or as a person you are, if you are able to define your personality right team will connect you. As a person right people will connect with you and will form a team.

You will be on right projects and be delivering successful tasks.

As an entrepreneur or a company according to Jeff is all about Defining your company’s personality.

He says If you are a company – deliver your organization’s personality in all advertisement campaigns.

As a person whenever you talk to people you should be the right advertisement for your personality.

 

6. DEFINE YOUR CULTURE AND VALUES

Culture and values are those set of norms for which you stand for. If you do not stand for something you fall for anything.

Defining a culture and values help you to stay focused, pick the right teams and people.

As a jobber, your core values will get you a job that fits your values. The reason is wherever your core values match the culture of the company you will be a good fit. That will supercharge your productivity and success.

As a company, your culture and values will help you attach to people and talent that fits in your culture. Your recruiters over a cup of coffee can find out that if a person being recruited is a cultural fit.

Define and see the secret.

 

7. TRACK YOUR COMPETITOR BUT FOCUS ON YOUR WORK

If you are a jobber understand that your competitor colleague in your company or other company is doing what. But do not focus all your energies on him only. Instead, focus on your excellency and your work, understand that your work will come from your customer.

If you are a jobber or an entrepreneur looking for a success in the career or in business or life, focus on your end customer for whom you are working. Deliver him the best in the best of the capacity. Soon you will see financial success in your organization.

 

8. TRACK YOUR COMPETITOR BUT ATTRACT YOUR CUSTOMER

If you are a company, according to Jeff Attract your customers. He narrates his story of his company that was into airlines travel. His company acquired the majority of customers of American Express – Multi-Billion Dollar Company. He asked his customers what you wish to have in the industry. How are all companies handling travel? His company researched further What you wish to have that not even American express is unable to do?

Soon in a short span of years, Amercian express asked him “Why do our customers love your more?”

When your competitor asks you about your customer, this is the key to success. Excellence should come from spending time with the customer.

Your customer is your success.

Your customer is your money.

 

9. ONE THING AT A TIME

You might have been hearing for long that you love doing many things at a time. You believe that the successful people are the multi-taskers. Partially you are true.

All multitaskers do many things but they focus on one thing at a time. One act, one task that is given 100 percent leads to successful accomplishment.

 

10. DEFINE YOUR GOALS – NEVER KNOW WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

As a person, you need to define your goals. For any work you undertake, first, ask yourself why you are doing this? What do you want to get out of this? Define what makes you happy and define your money goal also.

Many people are there in this world who keep on working day night and day long even after achieving much because they do not know when enough is enough.

According to Jeff Hoffman As an entrepreneur, you need to define your monetary and happiness goals.

As you are working hard sometimes with extended hours, enjoy your success once you achieve the goal. Defining the goal helps you relax once you achieve what you have defined.

So the process is Define – Achieve and Enjoy your success.

 

CONCLUSION:

A Balanced well-rounded life is a secret to success.

According to Jeff Hoffman Balance is the key to success. As an entrepreneur, you keep Digging in and doing things. You may even be working 7 days a weak. When you are an entrepreneur you do work a lot.

There is no big success without work ethic.

One should have a well Balanced and well-rounded life. So once a goal is achieved enjoy your success.

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You can reach the author at ashish@onelifetosuccess.com

 

10 Amazing Things That High Achievers Do For Success In Life

Are you looking for the traits of high achievers? Many times you feel that you have the traits of high achievers but still miss something here or there.

You have been doing all efforts to reach the stage that you wish. Still, the opportunity and the success flies like a bird in the hand. The bird bites you and flies away.

Do you feel you have everything on your meal tray in front you but still cannot eat?

You are one among the many who have tried the hands on all that can be done to achieve success in life.

After going through the success stories and traits of high achievers, many things were uncovered.

Check each thing that high achievers do and match with your current results.

 

Here are the 10 amazing things that high achievers do for success in life:

 

1. ASPIRE TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE NOT JUST LIVING

Many of us live the life each day as if just to live. You might be going to the same office daily, doing the same activities and expecting the different results.

Is it possible to get different results from the same things that you do every day?

High achievers have the tendency to make a difference in this world.

Anyone whosoever has ever achieved success in his domain lived to build a new world.

High achievers are here in this world to care. 

Look for the basic passion of yours to uncover passion to make a difference in this world.

 

2. NOTHING EVER COMES EASY

High achievers early in their life realize that nothing ever comes easy in this life. We have to earn a living to live.

You need to fight for what you stand for. If you do not stand for anything, you fall for everything.

High achievers have a tendency to passionately devote time and energy to rigorous efforts.

Sir Nelson Mandela stood for the freedom struggle of his people.

On 20th April 1964, He quoted “I have fought against white domination, and I have fought against black domination. I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. It is an ideal for which I hope to live for and to achieve. But if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.

 

3. DO NOT GO THROUGH EMOTIONS – GO THROUGH

MOTIONS

When the going gets tough-  The tough get the going. High achievers have the tendency to route their high emotions of fear, greed, jealousy, and anger into motions of their goal.

On the demise of his father, Cricketer Sachin Tendulkar scored emotional 140 not out against Kenya in ICC World Cup 1999.

You can sit back and cry when things run tough. You can cry foul and scold god or any other element of nature. Or you have the choice to turn emotions into motions.

What works in adversity is – Your Workout.

4. BUILD YOUR ACTION PLAN

Nothing ever big has been achieved without an action plan. An action plan is just to lay down the foundations of success.

You need to define your yearly, monthly and daily action plans.

High achievers are disciplined.

If you fail to plan, you actually plan to fail. Your hard work keeps you working hard on the desired goal.

 

5. STEP OUT OF THE COMFORTABLE ZONE

When you are feeling down and sick of what to do? What works out is, you work out.

Get up and get out of the bed. High achievers have always signaled that, do get out of your comfort zone and be exemplary.

Do the things which you are not comfortable with. Break your barriers.

Get into the habit of breaking all your limitations.

Expand your wings. Just fly, fly and fly. You will slowly enter a zone that is invincible.

 

6. BE CONSISTENT

Nothing ever great in life has been ever achieved without consistency. High achievers Plant their seeds daily.

A stone turned in your way will become your milestone for success. Work on your action plan daily.

Think about that, live about that. Be consistent and you will see a beautiful garden soon.

Just small baby steps each day and you start running soon.

 

7. HOLD THROUGH AND HOLD ONTO YOUR AIM

High achievers are not afraid of creating enemies while performing their tasks. They understand that bigger the aim bigger is the opposition.

Make your goal small and you will win friends. Make your goal high enough not to be chased easily by people, you will create enemies.

High achievers understand that they cannot keep everyone happy. If you are thinking of keeping everyone happy, you are mistaken.

Hold through and hold onto your aim. Bigger the opposition bigger is the success.

Steve Jobs the Co-founder of Apple was booted from the Company his founded. Apple product Lisa Computer sold poorly in 1985 and the co-founder was removed from the division.

Steve Jobs founded a new company NeXT that was acquired by Apple computers in 1997. This time Steve Jobs became the CEO Apple in the year 2000. 

 

8. MAKE THE LIVES OF PEOPLE BETTER

People care about you and your goal when you do something for them. High achievers have the tendency to take the people along with them.

They are happy in helping other people succeed. They understand nothing great ever is achieved alone.

You need people to support your mission and goal.

Try to make the lives of other people better, sooner or later you will have an army of people living your mission.

 

9. HAVE VISION – BUILD THE FUTURE NOT PRESENT

High achievers are visionary. They dream of the things which never existed. Bruce Lee Actor, Marital arts Instructor and the most influential person of 20th Century was living in a small basement room in 1970. In 1982 he had in his possession $ 10,000,000. 

His vision was to be the world best actor and instructor teaching Gung-Fu. He envisioned that the world should not look down to China but look up to China. 

He envisioned Institute for people of his community teaching Gung-Fu and live life with peace of mind.

High achievers are busy building the future. The present is a gift for them to create future.

Utilize your present to build your beautiful future.

 

10. POSITIVE ATTITUDE

There is always an opportunity in adversity. High achievers understand the situation and turn the opposite waves to their favor.

Steve Jobs the co-founder of Apple when was booted out from Apple in 1985 he turned his adverse situation to favorable. He formed NeXT and bounced back with success.

When struck in traffic Jam, you can always curse god, situation, Govt. or any political party. Or you can utilize that time to get in touch with your best friend.

You never know a phone call to him may change your mood and you become supercharged. Or he may come up something interesting for you in business or life that you never thought of.

Negativity attracts negativity.

If you want positive things to happen in your life, vibrate with the higher frequency of positive thoughts.

 

CONCLUSION:

 

To be a high achiever don’t just live, aspire to make a difference. Understand that nothing ever comes easy. Stand for something and you will not fall for everything.

Your stand on something may become your mission or goal. Turn your emotions into actions. Let your actions speak your emotions. Be ready with your action plan of your goal.

A seed planted each day will show plants soon. 

When things get tough, hold onto your aim, your defeats will enter a new zone.

Try to make the life of people around you better. There is no greater joy in helping somebody.

Envision your future. Surround yourself with positive people.

Mark Twain said – Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people do that but really great ones believe you too can become great.Be that great person. Sooner or later people will become great for you. Envision your future what you want to be.

Last but not the least, stay positive because you have a choice to ruin your day or make your day better.

I hope this article might have inspired you to success.

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You can reach the author at ashish@onelifetosuccess.com

 

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